INTROVERSION is often misunderstood.
People frequently mistake introversion for shyness because both involve limited social interaction. However, not all introverts are shy.
According to the website Psychology Today, introversion is a basic personality style characterized by a preference for the inner life of the mind over the outer world of other people.
Unlike extroverts who thrive in social settings, introverts tend to feel more energized and comfortable in solitary or low-stimulation environments.
However, spending more time alone may still raise concerns among others, as society tends to view extraversion as the ideal. For example, quiet children at school may face criticism and pressure to conform to the behavior of more outgoing peers.
The saddest part is that society often views introversion as a flaw to be fixed rather than a unique personality trait to be embraced.
Common introversion misconceptions
- Introversion is a problem that needs fixing
First of all, introversion is a natural personality trait, not a flaw. There’s no need to “fix” introversion. It would instead be better to understand and leverage it in ways that work best for the individual.
- All introverts are shy
Introverts might prefer quiet moments, but this doesn’t mean they’re shy. They can be confident and articulate, especially when sharing their thoughts on topics that they’re passionate about.
- Introverts dislike socializing
Introverts aren’t loners who avoid social events. Instead, they thrive in smaller, more meaningful interactions. They might need time alone to recharge, but they genuinely enjoy connecting with others in a deeper, more personal way.
- Introverts are always quiet
Introverts may seem quiet, but when they’re passionate about something, their enthusiasm and insights become vibrant and compelling, proving that they can be just as lively as anyone else.
- Introverts aren’t successful in social careers
Introverts can excel in social roles by using their unique strengths, like deep listening and thoughtful analysis. They often bring a refreshing perspective and can make a big impact with their ability to connect deeply and thoughtfully.
In the eyes of an introvert
Ana De Vega, 20, shared in an interview with republicasia that, based on her experience as an introvert, most people assume that introverted individuals either dislike others or exhibit antisocial behavior, are boring and have uninteresting interests; and/or are overly quiet.
De Vega added: “Of course, all of these are misconceptions, and often there are reasons for these perceived behaviors. Introverts do not dislike people; they just prefer to keep to themselves until they are comfortable with the person.”
She stated that introverts have a variety of interests, but may seem boring to those who prefer high-energy hobbies. She also noted that introverts can be loud, they just need to be with the right people to bring out that side of them.
Rhema Taeza, 20, told republicasia that introverts are not always alone and that they only choose the right people they interact with.
In a society that favors extraversion over introversion, it’s time to challenge these stereotypes and appreciate the unique strengths of introverts.
As per Jen Martinez, a psychology student, introversion is not confined to quietness and isolation.
“When the word introversion comes to mind, most people would often think that it’s about being shy and lonely, but introverts are more than just these stereotypes, and it is something that people talk less about,” she said.
Introverts have made remarkable contributions throughout history and include many of the world’s most successful business and political leaders.
Albert Einstein once said: “The monotony and solitude of a quiet life stimulates the creative mind.”
The next time you encounter a quiet person, consider how their reserved nature might impact the world.
Here’s to all the introverts in the world!
With reports from Cedrix Leppago
